That Comparison Game
Perhaps you’ve
heard this famous quote from Theodore Roosevelt before: Comparison is the thief
of joy. I was in college the first time
I heard it and it hit me square between the eyes. Comparison has always been a struggle for me. In school it was everything from grades, to
looks, to athletic ability. In recent
years, it’s more about career, stage of life, and sadly, still looks. As I’ve ventured more seriously into this
world of writing in the past year, comparison has come in looking at my small
blog, with its small (but faithful!) readership, to those of some of my favorite
authors who have multiple published books or other bloggers who have been at
this for a decade. Sounds silly, right? Author Jon Acuff says, “Don’t compare your beginning
to someone else’s middle.” But we all do
it in our own ways. While I might be
looking at other writers I admire, you might be in the throes of toddler
parenting and looking at the activities of a mom with school-aged kiddos.
For many students,
and adults too, if we’re honest, comparison keeps them from trying new things
as they get older because they fear they won’t be “the best” at it right
away. I’m currently character coaching
with the girls’ lacrosse team at Potomac Falls High School. This is my second year in this role and I
absolutely love hanging out at practice and going to games a few times each
week. One of the things I admire so much
about this program is the way the coaches – dads of current and former players –
have built it up over the years. Before
these dads stepped in several years ago, Potomac Falls didn’t even have a
junior varsity team because there weren’t enough girls. When the current coaches took on this role, I
was still teaching and coaching soccer at the school on the day we did cuts
(worst. day. ever.) we would encourage some of these sweet (mostly freshman)
girls to go see the lacrosse coaches.
They were willing to teach the game to girls who had never picked up a
lacrosse stick in an effort to discover some new talent and grow the
program. Last year, they won their
second state championship in a row and while they no longer have trouble
filling two full teams, they still strongly encourage girls to try out who have
never played before and consistently have girls on both the varsity and junior
varsity teams who are complete newbies to the game of lacrosse.
Panthers on three! |
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