That Comparison Game
Perhaps you’ve heard this famous quote from Theodore Roosevelt before: Comparison is the thief of joy. I was in college the first time I heard it and it hit me square between the eyes. Comparison has always been a struggle for me. In school it was everything from grades, to looks, to athletic ability. In recent years, it’s more about career, stage of life, and sadly, still looks. As I’ve ventured more seriously into this world of writing in the past year, comparison has come in looking at my small blog, with its small (but faithful!) readership, to those of some of my favorite authors who have multiple published books or other bloggers who have been at this for a decade. Sounds silly, right? Author Jon Acuff says, “Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.” But we all do it in our own ways. While I might be looking at other writers I admire, you might be in the throes of toddler parenting and looking at the activities o...